How To Get What You Want {Plus A Guest-Away!}

Jun 19, 2012 by

Today I have a guest-away. It’s a mixture between a guest post and a giveaway. Danielle Dowling and I connected on Twitter. We checked each other out, re-tweeted each others stuff and then finally we plucked up the courage to take our burgeoning friendship off Twitter.
Danielle has an utterly unique way with words. She’s the total opposite to me – she’s got brevity down. Every. single. word packs a punch. Lean in, pay attention and download the free book  she’s generously sharing on how to get what you want with us today. Hot, right?
Yes.  It is actually possible to have it all.  Or at least, have almost all of it.

The key to getting anything you want in life begins not with:
a strong business plan,
a load of cash
or even creative genius.

Getting anything you want begins with remembering who and what you are.

The goal of life is to know your-SELF.
“Knowing” is the acceptance of your innate creative power + wholeness and it begins with addressing the wounds in the places you feel broken.
Heal your spirit and get anything you want.

We (inadvertently) choose fear over love.

And because we choose a fear perspective instead of a love perspective we are often afraid. Of  failing.  Of embarrassing ourselves.   Of vulnerability.   Of rejection.
We think we have so much to lose.

When we let ourselves be directed by this fear, we:
feel an intense need to control things
the need for approval
the need for external power

We feel constricted and compare ourselves to others.
“Do they have more than me?  Do I have more than them?”
We feel the pull to tirelessly search for “the next thing” to satisfy us

It’s exhausting.  An unsatisfying compulsion.  And never-ending.
Like throwing buckets of water into a pool with a large, gapping whole at the bottom.

The reality?  Your fear is unnecessary.
Useless + restrictive.
The investment in fear is what keeps you afraid.

What you believe you are is a belief to be undone.”

“All things you seek to make your value greater in your sight limit you further, hide you from you, hide you from your worth and add another bar across the door that leads to true awareness of your Self.”  - A Course In Miracles

Your-SELF:  WHO YOU REALLY ARE
immune to criticism
unafraid of challenge
feels beneath no one, yet humble
one, quiet mind
already powerful
already gifted
already safe
already worthy
already infinitely creative

End the fear + sub-level anxiety you’ve  made your daily companion. Begin to shift from a false sense of self to your true identity.

But in order to get everything you want, you need the guts to ask for it.
And if the answer is no?  You need to grace and charm and presence of mind to negotiate for it.

Do you have have both guts and grace? I thought so.

If you’re ready to harness them, download your free ebook now.
Danielle Dowling, M.A., is an author, relationship expert and women’s life coach. She is an intuitive strategist who works with women leaders who are ready to stop comprising on the things that matter most — soulful companionship, meaningful sex, sisterhood and above all, self-love. If you’re ready to up your game with heart and hustle, Danielle is also available for speaking engagements, radio/telephone and other media appearances. So if you’re seeking fully-realized potential, legendary love or effortless communication befriend her on Twitter or Facebook and pop by www.danielle-dowling.com for regular doses of rapid fire wisdom.
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